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That Inner Critic Might Not Be Yours
Have you ever heard an employee say, “I’m probably not good enough for this”?
Hey there,
As HR pros, we often see the quiet aftermath of toxic leadership: employees who doubt themselves or hesitate to speak up.
That self-doubt? It's often the lingering echo of a past manager who led through fear.
Here's the truth: They're not broken, they're just bruised—and bruises can heal.
One of the most powerful things HR can do is help them recognize what isn't theirs to carry, then gently guide their rebuilding.
💥Ever Worked for a Boss Who Made You Feel Invincible?
That unforgettable leader who cheered you on, supported you through missteps, and inspired you to take risks—is rare, but incredibly impactful.
Saurabh Kale, Head of People & Culture, recently shared how pivotal these leaders have been in his career: they led with trust, not ego.
By contrast, Kale recalls working under managers who were threatened by fresh perspectives—subtly discouraging, “That’s good, but keep it to yourself.” Instead of guidance, their insecurity became a barrier.
His key insight for HR?
👉 Always choose your boss over the job.
Because your team's growth depends on who leads them.
🧩 Actionable HR Takeaways
Support multi-generational leadership training. Equip Gen X/Boomer leaders to mentor and inspire younger teams—and vice versa.
Cultivate trusting relationships. Encourage connection, not control; dialogue, not dominance.
Coach managers to champion—not stifle—innovation. Create a culture where new ideas are celebrated, not silenced.
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That’s a Wrap for Now 👋
Thanks for spending a few minutes with us.
We hope something here sparked a new idea—or simply reminded you that the work you do matters.
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Until next time,
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