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Are your perks doing more harm than good?
Why coveted “perks” are failing—and what employees actually want
Hey there,
We’ve all been there—rolling out a flashy new perk meant to boost morale only to hear crickets—or worse, resentment. 😬
This week, we’re unpacking the rise of “anti-perks”: well-intentioned benefits that miss the mark with today’s workforce.
Let’s talk about what’s happening—and how we can shift from “perks for show” to real, meaningful support.
💥 What Exactly Are Anti-Perks?
“Anti-perks” is a term that’s been popping up more and more in HR circles These are those benefits that, well, they look good on paper but often end up...
Feeling performative or just plain tone-deaf
Adding pressure instead of genuine relief
Accidentally covering up deeper organizational issues
Think about it: like "unlimited" vacation that no one actually feels safe taking. Or a shiny new wellness app in a culture where burnout is rampant. Or even free beer on tap, but absolutely no psychological safety to speak your mind.
🚨 3 Common Anti-Perks (and Why They Fail)
Before we jump into solutions, let’s take a closer look at a few perks that seem helpful—but often backfire in practice. Here are three of the most common offenders and why they don’t work the way we hope.
🗓 Unlimited PTO : Sounds liberating, but often leads to less time off due to fuzzy boundaries and fear of judgment. It can add pressure instead of true relief.
🍩 Free Food / Swag : Fun in theory, but feels hollow if folks are underpaid or burnt out. These benefits can unintentionally signal "no raise, but here's a snack!"
📲 Wellness Apps & Perks : Access is great, but they're just a band-aid if people are too overwhelmed to use them. Real support, not just perks, is what truly helps burnout.
🎯 What Employees Actually Want
It’s not rocket science—it’s respect, trust, and real-life support. Based on what we’re hearing across industries, here’s what today’s employees consistently value most:
🧩 Flexibility that’s real, not performative: The autonomy to choose how, when, and where they work—because trust > time-tracking.
🍽️ Perks with purpose : Yes, free meals and stays still spark joy—when they’re thoughtful and actually ease daily life.
🧠 Mental health support that goes beyond an app: People want to feel safe asking for time, accessing therapy, or simply not burning out. Programs must be real, accessible, and stigma-free.
🌈 An inclusive culture that walks the talk: Belonging isn’t a buzzword—it’s a daily practice. Employees thrive when they see diversity celebrated and equity embedded in policies.
💸 Competitive, transparent pay: Let’s be honest: compensation matters. More than ever, people want to know they’re being paid fairly for their contributions—and told the truth about it
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That’s a wrap for now 👋
Thanks for spending a few minutes with us. We hope something here sparked a new idea—or at least made you feel a little more seen in the work you do.
Whether you’re testing out a new perk, leading a tough conversation, or simply catching your breath—know that it all counts.
We’re glad to be in this with you.
Until next time,
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